Men and women are different. That should be clear to all people. But
it's really interesting to see how both genders take a very different
approach to the same thing. Shopping is one example. Generally speaking,
women seems to spend more time on shopping than men. Men basically see
it as just another thing that needs to be done. To be done as quickly as
possible, without a whole lot of fuss, and continue with something
else.
Men often already have in mind what they want.
Whereas men will pick the first thing that looks acceptable to their
needs, women first need to check out everything that's available, even
if that means going to different stores. Women will shop around to get
the best value at the lowest price. Women will compare prices and check
what's on sale. The have to check the fabric, the color,
the texture and so on. What they ultimately buy depends on the
circumstances at that time. A guy could get a pair of shoes in less than
2 minutes. Most women could not.
Women place more
importance on sales associates. Perhaps it's because asking for help is
not seen as very "manly", men will try to find a solution on their own.
Asking for help is to be done as a last resort. If they do ask, men want
short, direct answers. Such as what aisle can a certain product be
found. Men want to be left alone afterwards. Women want sales associates
to elaborate and be as talkative as possible. Make some recommendations
and show that she has your attention.
Unlike men,
women also attach a social aspect to shopping. It can be used to as a
way to connect to one another. Whereas women prefer to go out shopping
with at least one other person, men really don't care. It is not unusual
to see a group of three, four or even more women shop together. The
reverse is far less likely. Men don't see it as a way to hang out
together.
The amount of time can be flabbergasting and
even annoying to men. Unlike men, spending almost the whole day
shopping, even if it's just window shopping, can be exciting to women.
Perhaps as a way to accommodate women, some of the larger department
stores or malls have sections, perhaps at the entrance, with chairs
available where the guys can sit and wait, while their spouses go
shopping. The opposite is rare. Seldom will you see a guy drop his
spouse or girlfriend behind to wait, while he goes shopping.
What
men and women are shopping for can also greatly affect their behavior.
For example, men are more likely to express interest in power tools than
women. So even if women in general tend to spent more time to complete
their shopping, in some cases it's the men that would need more time.
All
this is speaking in general. Every individual is different. Some women
may hate shopping or act more like men when shopping. But as a whole,
significant differences can be observed that warrant the conclusion that
men and women really are different. Period.
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